We all have been created by God – intricately and purposefully. We are His special creation – made in His image and likeness with delegated authority over all of the earth. This alone makes us royalty.

When we respect ourselves, it is not esteeming ourselves greater or better but it shows an appreciation of who we are in Christ. Our self-respect will not make us respect others less, because we understand that not respecting others will take away from us our own self-respect.

We respect ourselves by the choices we make, we respect ourselves by what we expose ourselves to, we respect ourselves by understanding that our every action can build or destroy. We respect ourselves when we choose to build – first ourselves and first others.



Somehow misunderstood, self preservation is a virtue of those who have come to understand that they have a mandate to fufill on earth.

Ukuzingca in IsiXhosa is normally a virtue that is associated with purity and self respect yet referring to one’s ability to keep themselves as a treasure. Like the Bible says, what you treasure you keep as sacred.

When you know who you are and your purpose you will not preserve yourself for the sake of it. You will understand that, part of being a treasure is having times of usefulness and you will be able to know those times.

What a great gift that with the earthen treasure we are we can achieve so much

#ZINGCE – you are God’s treasure – His masterpiece.


The most profound statement from the Book of Exodus is found in Exodus 3: 14 – I AM who I AM.

The thing is, God is not confused about who He is; with all the roles He plays in our lives, He is still clear of who He is. And it is in the same spirit that we aught to know who we are.

We are born of God and have been empowered by Him – nothing should make us forget that. Do not let your past dictate what you know of yourself – after all, you are still standing.

#ZAZI ukuba ungubani – Know who YOU ARE!!!

Celebrating MyLady Ntle

Every woman is a catalyst for any little girl to become the same, to answer the question of what will be the consequences of her name.

Our Ntle is full of energy and verve, she holds her head high because of her open and honest approach to life, the way her humility and compassionate nature is a necessary thing. Her dignity and strength, her pure ESSENCE are the consequences to her name.
With each passing day you bloom with grace and finesse because you share your blessings of love with those around you. Your way of life helps us understand the full extent of your womanhood and love.

We celebrate you today MyLady – Ntle, for your impact driven life.

Inspiring Reflections

The UCT GSB hosts an annual conference for the Women in Business; the latest held on the 17th August 2018. It is always a privilege to attend events like these as one never leaves empty handed. The line-up of speakers is always outstanding and they speak on various topics under one theme.
The theme for this year was From Passion to Action. The theme was so relevant for us, we’re young and bursting with creativity and vibrancy. There’s always that one thing though… procrastination, self-doubt, whatever it is, always lurking in the background ensuring you don’t take that step of action forward.  With our Passion brimming from within –  we can’t contain it – we just need that push so that everything is in place to take the first step.
As one of the speakers present, Mimi Kalinda centred on the single most powerful weapon – your story. Your story is what sustains you – this story is your WHY. Why you do what you do, why this is your passion. She says through telling the story you let it inspire others so that they buy into your vision. Talk about who you are, what you bring in the room, what you’ve been through; speak it in an authentic manner. What is the impact and what you want your audience to do with your story (Call to action).
Now the issue comes when you struggle to get the platform to communicate your story because you are prejudged as you enter the room.
Prof Mamokgethi Phakeng ( Vice Chancellor – UCT) spoke intently on this and went to the heart of the matter that this is an even bigger struggle when you’re a woman and black, it doesn’t help either when you’re of a small frame(lol). The crux of it being if I don’t show you, you won’t give me the opportunity to tell you. Therefore she needed something that announces her presence before she even entered the room.
By her admission, this came from a place of insecurity (especially coming from a previously disadvantaged background) but she used this as an ally. To push herself to work harder, to achieve the unimaginable, it also helps her to be comfortable with who she is.
As a result owning the insecurity and being able to use it to her advantage and not use it as a crutch and an excuse to not achieve anything. Her being aware of “what it is”, the status quo, she works to qualify (2 Tim 2:15) and not be ashamed. She wanted to prove that she could do it and do it well.
She spoke about the beautiful burden of having been the “first” to achieve certain things in the country and took it upon herself to ensure she’s not the last, and used her opportunities to change the way things are. She did not wait or ask for people to support her initiatives; rather than complain about what other people must do, she got started because it was her passion.
So MyLady as Prof said it so eloquently, change makers take on the responsibility to do things; they do not hand over the responsibility to other people when they see what needs to be done. There’s no time for excuses; no “if only this was in place”. They make things happen – from Passion to Action.
We will be sharing some of Prof’s quotes in this women’s month and hope you’ll be inspired.